Today in Blogworld 04.04.13

How to Do Accountability in Your Group (Even with Visitors)

This is a helpful post by Eric McKiddie for small group leaders.

First Day Thoughts on Not Being a Pastor Anymore

John Piper reflects on waking up on a Monday for the first time in 33 years not being a pastor at Bethlehem Baptist Church. 

You are Not Her Super-Hero

John Eldredge has taught men that one of the core components of being a man is having a beauty to rescue. This article explores why that may not be the case—and why that is actually good news.

In the Cross-Hairs of the Discernment Bloggers

I’m not sure everyone appreciates the difficulty of this post. Tim’s goal in this post is clearly to tell his readers not to go to those watchdog/discernment blogs. He shares from personal experience as one caught in their crosshairs and so he provides a unique perspective. Yet, how does he do this without seeming passive aggressive and going on the defensive? How does he do this without at the same time pushing traffic to these sites? It’s kind of like when someone says, “Don’t look down”, our first instinct is to look down. I hope you appreciate the difficulty of Challies’ position and how well he states his point. He’s basically telling us “I’m not going to discernment blogs anymore, and I believe you should do as I do”. I agree.

Rock out to a song that you probably thought you could never rock out to:

One Mark of a Truly Spiritual Church

“We don’t have bulletins”, said the pastor quite proudly.

“Why not?”, enquires a sheepish visitor.

The pastor confidently answers, “We want to give the Spirit freedom to work and move in our worship services. We do not want to be shackled and confined by some order of service”.

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That is a real conversation I overheard in a church that I was visiting. At the time I was giving the pastor a thumbs up. I grew up in a Baptist church where the only time you shouted or raised your hands was if somebody elbowed you in the kidney when you nodded off during the pastors sermon. Therefore, this new found freedom of worship was something I was really digging.

Then it got weird.

Nothing like holding snakes or clucking down the aisle like a chicken. But it just got weird. I never knew what to expect from one Sunday to the next. Would we enter into a building with no chairs and start roasting marshmallows while singing Chris Tomlin songs? Would we see a live goat sacrificed as an illustration for the one week sermon series on Leviticus? Would I be called on stage and exposed for something? How long would this meeting last? Who would be speaking?

I never knew the answer to those questions. And eventually I stopped coming because of that. I started believing that it was less about the Spirit and his activity and more about the ideas that this pastor dude got at 2am after a night of indulging in a Chinese buffet. So I went to a church with a little more order.

Some might say that I was simply uncomfortable with the Spirit’s moving. If I really wanted to be in a spiritual church then I wouldn’t need a crazy church bulletin. Maybe, that’s true. But I kind of think the apostle Paul agrees with me.

For God is not a God of confusion but of peace…But all things should be done decently and in order.

According to Paul one mark of a truly spiritual church is a godly order that intends to build up the congregation. It’s the exact opposite of we-don’t-have-bulletins-because-we-have-the-Spirit dude. I’m not saying that bulletins are necessary. In some instances they are just a waste of paper. But order is necessary. The Spirit works in the midst of order not against it.

So the next time some dude invites you to his church that is really spiritual because they just do as the Spirit leads, you might consider 1 Corinthians 14 before signing up.

Today in Blogworld 04.03.13

Our National Pastime

Kevin DeYoung explains why baseball is so amazing. I agree.

5 Ways You Can Teach Your Children About Their Sexual Development

It’s important to teach our kids about their sexual development. Here are 5 ways that we can do that.

A ‘Black and Tan’ Roundup

Thabiti Anyabwile an Douglas Wilson have had a few go-rounds concerning Douglas Wilson’s new book, Black and Tan. These are helpful articles and if nothing else show us how to faithfully engage one another in the midst of disagreement.

Jesus is On the Wrong Side of History

This is a brilliant piece by Trevin Wax. Wonderfully written with an excellent point about our current standing in culture.

Wow. This video really heats up at about the 1:30 mark. These dudes are dedicated, that’s all I’ve got to say: