Today in Blogworld 08.23.16

Mike Leake

The Way a Leader is Expected to Respond Determines the Response They Receive

This is true. Though it may not necessarily mean you are doing this as a leader—some people will just assume that you are going to respond a certain way regardless of your character.

3 Dangers of Dividing People By Generation

Yep.

How Do Pastor’s Deal With Awkward Silence?

I’m really learning and trying to grow in this area as well.

The Slough of Internet Despond

Samuel James is spot on here. “The most miserable people are the ones who don’t suffer, but merely hover–attached to the world by ether, spending their emotions and their hours consuming a diet of pixels.”

Dick Van Dyke is amazing here is one piece of evidence from the 60’s:

Simon Goulart’s Path to Joy

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I love stumbling across little nuggets of history which give insight into the people of the past. A couple days ago as I was thumbing through Calvin’s Company of Pastor’s I came upon some advice from Simon Goulart to one of his friends. It is an apt summary of the early Reformed view of living life. Here are Goulart’s five tips and his conclusion:

  1. Live with other people as if God were watching. Speak with God as if others were listening.
  2. Endure with greatest patience what you are not able to change, and walk with God (by whose authority all things occur) without complaining. Evil and wretched is the person who follow after the commander of Hell.
  3. In times of activity as much as in periods of rest, all dimensions of life ought to be beautiful.
  4. Commit your way to God. Hope in him, and he will do it.

And Goulart’s summary statement, “Only eternal things endure”. (108)

A few things strike me about Goulart’s life advice. First, notice how much this doesn’t fit the typical view of those in Geneva—or the later Puritans. They weren’t the glum souls that you often think of when you picture Calvin and his company of pastors. These were men who pursued joy in every area of life.

Secondly, I absolutely love their vision of God over everything. It absolutely influenced everything they did and thought. That first point is worth putting on a coffee mug. Can you imagine how transformed your conversations and prayer life would be if you followed this advice.

Lastly, John Piper isn’t kidding when he says that he didn’t make this Christian hedonism stuff up. There is a rich history of “God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in him”. Though they didn’t articulate it quite the way that Piper did that theology flows through the veins of these four pieces of advice. And they are worth heeding.

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Photo source: here  (I understand why you might think Goulart was a dour man)

Today in Blogworld 08.22.16

Mike Leake

10 Tips to Serve Your Guest Speakers

If you are having someone come and speak at your church, consider these tips.

Should Children Sit Through “Big Church”?

I agree with Piper here, although we have children’s church until 1st grade in order to train the kids a bit more for what we do in “big church”.

12 Steps to Regain Meaningful Membership

I needed this one. Much to think through, here.

The 14 Kids You Find In Every Youth Group

Yep. I can picture some of these kids.

Can paper cut wood?

Five Words Which Might Scare Your Pastor

Mike Leake

I heard these words a few times as a youth pastor, when I was just cutting my teeth in ministry, and I absolutely relished them. It was confirmation to my heart and my soul that I was doing what God had called me to do. I’ve heard these words now as a senior pastor and they aren’t nearly as appetizing—they are frightening.

What are these five words?

“I’m here because of you.”

Those words once fed my ego—or maybe just my insecurity. I could look around and congratulate myself that a handful of people were there because of the way that God was using me in preaching, relating, or just because of my vision for doing things. I’d be lying if I said that a good part of my excitement wasn’t just fleshly pride.

But now…Those words terrify me.

First, those words terrify me because I know if you are here because of me you’ll likely also leave because of me. I’m not sufficient. I’m not competent enough or holy enough to captivate affections or attentions. I’m going to preach terrible sermons. I’m going to step on toes. I’m going to sin against you. I’m going to let you down. And if you are here because of me when those things happen—and they will—you’ll be tempted to leave and find someone else who will also let you down. This terrifies me because I know up front who I am and I know that I cannot live up to those expectations.

Secondly, those words terrify because I’m not Jesus and I don’t need the temptation to think that I am. Oh, there is something so carnal and prideful within me. Abominable thoughts that I’ve got what it takes to grow a church, to keep people, to disciple people. Foolishness. I’m not able to save a single soul. I cannot captive the heart of anyone (nor would I want to). But when I hear words like those dastardly five, I’ve got a battle to fight.

Third, I’m a person and not an asset. It does something to my soul when this truth is forgotten. I need people not just to lead people. I need the vital companionship of the local church just as much as you do. But whenever I’m viewed as an asset (or liability) I’m robbed of a bit of my humanity. My family and I aren’t performers. We’re people. Broken people being redeemed—oh, it feels so slowly redeemed—by Jesus.

If you want to talk about all of the “assets” in our local church, I ought to be somewhere near the bottom. The people doing all the behind the scenes work, the lady who wakes up at 3AM and prays for me, the folks laboring in the kitchen for our Wednesday meals, the folks giving up their Thursday’s to put together hundreds of backpacks for the children in our community, these people are the real assets. But they are people too and not assets.

Lastly, these words provide for me a dangerous temptation to start focusing on press clippings and opinion polls instead of the Word. It is in the Word of God that power is found. Paul Tripp is correct when he says, “Perhaps in ministry there is no more potent intoxicant than the praise of men, and there is no more dangerous form of drunkenness than to be drunk with your own glory”. (Tripp, 167) If I start focusing on whether or not our numbers are growing, if people are happy with my preaching, if we are developing a good reputation in the community—all of that jazz—then, I’m going to cut corners that shouldn’t be cut. I’m going to put my eyes on the wrong prize and we’ll blow this whole thing up. We might even become successful by some God-forsaken standard but when we stand before Almighty God it won’t be pleasing. I want to focus on His glory and His honor and not my own.

Friends, I’m not sharing these words today because I’m a super humble man. I’m sharing them because I’m a glory monger and I don’t want to be. Those words terrify me because I know my own heart, my own propensity to self-glorification, and I know how easily I could make shipwreck of this whole thing.

I’m feeling these words of Robert Murray McCheyne after preaching his last sermon at Carron-shore:

My last. Some tears; yet I fear some like the messenger, not the message; and I fear I am so vain as to love that love. Lord, let it not be so. Perish my honor, but let thine be exalted forever. (53)

So I’m praying with McCheyne this morning…perish my honor. Don’t let this jar of clay try to rob You from one ounce of glory. Let’s tremble at God’s Word alone.