Pray With Your Spouse App Now Available

I continue to be amazed at how this little idea I had to pray for my wife has really taken off and is impacting marriages across the globe. Writing these prayers and brief devotionals to strengthen families is a trembling task and I’m honored to see how the Lord has used them to further His kingdom. I was made aware a couple weeks ago that in 2017 we are looking at having over 250,000 downloads for our prayer apps.

The apps are completely free. The developer, Geoffrey Dagley, did the pray for your wife challenge with us. Being an app developer he decided to use his gifts to design a helpful tool for folks who need a little more than just an ebook to complete the 31 days. He has partnered with us on every app so far, and we’ve just recently completed our Pray With Your Spouse challenge.

I’m pleased to announce that the 31 Day Pray With Your Spouse app is now available!

Head over to the 31 Day Prayer Challenge site to download our apps and available ebooks.

Stay tuned for more prayer challenges…

Read This! 04.06.17

Up Your Pac-Man Game

I’m convinced there is a hotel in a little Colorado town that still has my hi-score on Pac-Man, but this will help me up my game even more.

5 Types of Gossiping People

Not all gossiping is the same.

Helping Kids Handle Conflict

The sooner we train our kids the better.

No Spin on Sin

Minimizing sin has a couple unwanted consequences.

Did Jesus Ever Experience Doubt?

I agree with Denny on this one.

You Cannot Raise Snowflakes in Jesus’ Name

We don’t want our kids to suffer but our tendency to over-protect our kids is probably harmful to their development.

7 Ways to Deal with Gnats in Ministry

I’m not comfortable calling sheep ‘gnats’, but I link to this article because I think it’s a helpful perspective on how to handle those who are always negative and complaining.

Mark Dever on how to lead change:

Not Perpetuating Intellectual Poverty

Like most other human I like to feel needed. I also like to be viewed as knowledgeable (even as an expert) in certain fields. Both of those desires can be incredibly dangerous for pastoral ministry. One thing I’ve found, in all my studies as a history nerd, is that experts don’t make good pastors. The guy who follows the guy who followed THE GUY seldom properly carries the mantle. Scripture calls us to think about how our handling of the gospel, and how our discipling of others, will impact future generations. We are to work today so that Jesus will be not only the only boast of our generation but also the ones to come.

There is something I’m seeing in my own generation and even more in the generations after me, that has me a bit concerned. In the past I called it The Googlization of Bible Study. Our tendency to Google everything short circuits our ability to engage in deep thought. Rather than wrestling with the Scriptures or engaging in the deep work of intense focused thinking we settle for social media conversations and the dissemination of information. We are losing our ability to think deeply.

I believe we are fast approaching a culture defined by an intellectual poverty that comes from this Googlization. Since we are to love God with our minds, such a climate will have adverse on our experience of the gospel. As one who wants to have a lasting impact for the sake of the gospel I have to ask whether or not there are ways in which I might be perpetuating intellectual poverty.

At present our church is thinking through how we ought to do benevolence and trying to develop a healthy benevolence ministry. One resource that has been extremely helpful is When Helping Hurts by Steve Corbett and Brian Finkert. Corbett and Finkert argue that the way most middle-class Americans think about mercy ministry actually does more harm than good. Simply providing for peoples material needs one perpetuates poverty. One major takeaway from this book is to avoid paternalism. As the authors say, “Do not do things for people that they can do for themselves”. (109)

How does this translate to intellectual poverty?

Consider this scenario. I get an email from a student who has just skimmed an article that has interested him on the internet. He’s able to discern that the article is making an important point but he isn’t quite sure the significance of the thing. It’s put a bee in his bonnet and he needs to deal with it somehow. So what does he do? He sends a short email with a link that simply says, “Thoughts?”

Now, I love getting emails like this. (See sentence one and two). I also love interacting and talking through what someone is reading. It’s a passion of mine and I’d be sad if these types of emails ever stopped. But the way I respond to this email will say a good deal about whether I’m pouring into another generation or just perpetuating intellectual poverty. I don’t help him by chewing on the article myself and then giving him a cliffs notes version of the significance of the thing. I’m not teaching him how to think for himself.

So, if I want to reach a generation I may never see and not perpetuate intellectual poverty, I’ll respond to his email by putting the ball back in his court. “Intriguing article, I have a few thoughts but I’d love to hear your thoughts first.” Or I could ask more probing questions to lead the horse to water. Of course I can lead the horse to water but I can’t make him drink. He can get annoyed and just Google some sort of answer or ask someone who will just give him the answer. But at least by doing this I’m not contributing to intellectual poverty.

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Read This! 04.04.17

The Jihadi Who Turned to Jesus

I love reading articles like this.

Five Ways to Grow a Culture of Trust

This is more important than you might think.

7 Reasons Christians Are Not Required to Tithe

That’s one view. Here is the other.

5 Christian Clichés that Need to Die

Agreed.

How to Listen to a Sermon

I appreciate it when folks treat sermon listening like the serious business it is.

Enjoying the Pastoral Prayer

I really like this.

Easy Like Friday Afternoon: A Manifesto on Hard-Believism

I agree with Jared’s view here.

Can’t Afford the Trip to Phoenix?

I’m so excited that we are able to offer a few scholarships to pastors/ministry leaders who would not be able to attend the PC for financial reasons.

Is Unforgiveness Unforgivable?

This is hard-hitting but we need to pay attention to it.

I really appreciate the counsel given here:

Shepherding Your Family through Ministry Turmoil from The Gospel Coalition on Vimeo.