Read This! 04.24.18

All the Messages and Panels from T4G18

I’ll be sure to bookmark this…and never watch them (because that’s what I do).

The Women of T4G

Speaking of T4G, I appreciate this reflection by Melissa.

Preaching on Racism from the ‘White Pulpit’

I realize that in our heated environment articles like this will probably be dismissed. But I think it’s important to consider.

10 Things You Should Know About the “Lamb’s Book of Life”

I’ve had a few questions about this as well. I’ll be sure to save this article for when folks ask me about this.

Seven Marks of a Workaholic

I don’t think I have these, but maybe it’s so bad that I can’t even see it.

What Happens When Christianity Doesn’t Work

I tend to not link to article which confront you with a pop up once you get there. But this is so good I’ll make an exception.

What the Church Can and Should Bring to the #MeToo Movement

Appreciate Whitney Woolard’s work on this.

Shooing Flies in the Pulpit

I enjoyed this.

Apparently it’s pretty much impossible to throw a baseball faster than 110mph. But I bet Uncle Rico could disprove this:

A Call For @Mobaptists To Speak Up

A couple months ago your church wrapped up a tremendous week of revival services led by a dynamic speaker. His messages were engaging. People were encouraged. He called out sin within the community and our nation. He called the church to repentance. He spoke as a champion of family values. Your whole little town was talking about this guy coming to speak. It’s hard for people to think of this speaker and not simultaneously think of your local church.

Today that dynamic speaker has been charged with criminal actions related to sexual misconduct. The legality of all of this is still somewhat up in the air. The guy might do time for his actions. He might not. But he has confessed to the sexual misconduct part being true. It’s apparent that the man you had on the stage didn’t quite match up to the man he was when nobody else was looking.

So what does this local church do?

Here is what I would do. I would write a letter to the local newspaper and speak to the issue. I would lovingly offer prayer for this man and his family. I would navigate this with as much grace as we possibly can. I would not denounce the things that he said from our pulpit which were true. But I would be certain to distance myself from this man’s recent actions. I would certainly not allow him back in our pulpit and I would even confess that his lifestyle did not match up to his words, and we cannot support that. I would make sure that we worked hard to disavow the notion in people’s minds that our local church supports sexual misconduct in any way.

To not do this when I’ve publicly partnered with someone is to communicate that we are okay with the present actions.

On a Tuesday afternoon during the Missouri Baptist Convention annual meeting Missouri Governor, Eric Greitens, gave an address to the messengers. In this particular speech, to a rousing applause, Greitens called on us to join him in the mission. He promised his support to people of faith. He wanted us to know that we have a friend in the Governor. After the speech I heard several celebrate the fact that we had a “man of God” as the Governor of Missouri.

I’ve written in the past that this muddying of the gospel is unhelpful. But we’re beyond that point. We have publicly given Eric Greitens our platform. It’s not a one to one comparison but we’ve “let him preach at our revival”. In doing so folks associate Missouri Baptists with Eric Greitens. Therefore, it behooves us to publicly address the recent confessions of Greitens.

We do not need to be involved in the politics of the thing (that’s the problem in the first place). We don’t need to comment on whether or not he is guilty of the criminal charges against him (like blackmail). But what he did do was admit to sexual immorality. He admitted to not living out in his personal life the family values he portrayed from our stage. This is hypocrisy. And just as we publicly united ourselves with him for his pro-life stance so now we must also publicly denounce these actions.

We can still offer our prayers and our support of many of the policies he pursued. We do not have to denounce everything about our governor. We can still say we appreciate his political vision and that we appreciate his fighting for family values and pro-life causes. But we can also publicly denounce and be saddened by the fact he did not model this in his own life.

Maybe we can call Eric Greitens to repentance and proclaim the gospel to him. Yes, there is forgiveness to be had for his past. But it’s only found in the shed blood of Jesus Christ. It’s not found in being a conservative or in championing pro-life causes. He will not atone for his sexual indiscretions by publicly promoting healthy human sexuality. His only hope for help is found in the person and work of Jesus Christ. We would do well to call him to repentance and faith at the same time we acknowledge our disapproval of his affair.

I don’t desire to drag a man through the mud. I also could care less about being careful so as not to give fodder to the liberals trying to shut him down. What I care more about than anything is the soul of Eric Greitens and the gospel of Jesus Christ. Missouri Baptists who clapped and applauded and championed him as our friend in the faith, it’s time for us to be good friends. It’s time for us to publicly call him to repentance and to communicate our displeasure at his hypocrisy. Our applause and our platform giving was public. Therefore voicing our displeasure and our gospel proclamation ought to also be public. And we can do this without giving up one inch of our passion for conservative or pro-life causes.

How Ric Flair Momentarily Exposed My Older Brother Heart

I’ll confess. I was a huge wrestling nerd in the 80’s and 90’s. My love for wrestling died somewhere around the time WCW did. One of my least favorite wrestlers of all time was Ric Flair. Couldn’t stand the guy. Which means he was a phenomenal showman. He was supposed to be hated. So when ESPN ran a 30 for 30 on Flair I had to check it out.

I had heard of his alcoholism and his battle for life last year. But I didn’t realize how sad Flair’s story really was. The real Ric Flair was much like the guy we watched on television. He claims to have slept with over 10,000 women. He drank almost all day every day for more decades than I’ve been alive. And here he was crying on the screen. An empty and broken man. The death of his son, Reid, to an accidental overdose absolutely broke Flair. He realized he was more of a friend than a father. He barely got those words out through his sobs.

I couldn’t help but see in Flair a bit of the prodigal son in the pig slop. He is at a spot where he realizes the emptiness of the life he gave himself to. He gave everything he had to professional wrestling. He was one of the greatest ever. He lived the life that many men dream of. And it all came up empty.

I thought to myself, “Man, I would love to see Jesus come in and rescue Ric Flair.” And before I could rejoice at the thought I heard the older-brother noisily speak to my heart. Wouldn’t it be so unfair? How scandalous that Flair got to “live the life” and then repents at the end of his and is just as justified and clean before a holy God as I am? He gets to have his cake and eat it too.

This was the same thinking that caused the older brother to miss out on the kingdom. Thankfully, I remembered the gospel. And what the Spirit called out in my heart was the foolish declaration that Flair “lived the life”. That’s a lie. What I had just watched was the story of a broken man and his pathetic grasping to find some bit of satisfaction in the wrestling business that took his life from him. And somehow I foolishly, if only for a moment, called that “living the life”. That’s not a cake I want to eat. Those joys have a bottom to them. And their putrid.

I’ve always loved these words of the Puritan John Flavel:

“All the delights in the sensual life are but as the putrid waters of a corrupt pond where toads lie croaking and spawning, compared to the crystal streams of the most pure and pleasant fountain.”

The problem with the older brother is that his duty isn’t delight, it’s drudgery. So he views all the work he did as putting in his time and earning his reward. You can never be enamored with grace while having such a philosophy. Your heart isn’t actually changed. You still believe the world has all the treasures to offer you. You just don’t have the guts to go try and get them. And so you inwardly get bitter and slowly die inside. You really do want the world but you’re afraid to pursue it. You want rewarded for obedience while being blind to the fact that obedience to such a wonderful Father is the treasure.

I wouldn’t want a life of sin and then a death bed conversion. That isn’t cheating. It’s not finding a loophole. It’s bathing in waters of death and missing out on years of joy in Christ. It’s delayed joy. Why would I want that? Jesus is where it’s at. I’m grateful the Lord rescued me when he did. I’m not bitter that he didn’t wait longer and let me go further down a spiral of God-dethroning and humanity-belittling sin. Such a view is silly.

And so I’d weep with joy if Ric Flair is found by Christ at the bottom of those putrid waters, and there Flair finds true life. Yeah, that’d be cause for the angels in heaven to give a big Wooooo!!!!

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Read This! 04.19.18

Is Political Disagreement Necessary to Gospel Reconciliation?

This is an important question to consider.

Matt Merker Music

This is a great resource.

What does Jesus mean by ‘new wineskins’?

Hmmm….interesting.

20 Truths from Leading Major Change in Your Ministry

Gold in these here hills.

The Heartbeat of My Social Media Addiction

This one hurt a bit.

Preachers, Let’s Stop Stepping On Toes

I’m not sure “stop” is quite the right word…but I’m digging what this article is saying.

I Was a Disney Princess…

Heartbreaking.

The Dangerous ‘Well Done’

There are some risks which come with affirmation.

This is the deadliest lake in the world…I didn’t even know this could happen: