Today in Blogworld 9.5.12

Top 10 Women’s Blogs

David Murray indexes the top 10 blogs written by women and also provides a place in the comments for you to add your favorites.

Answering Anger

Joe Thorn gives a few helpful pointer on knowing your anger and also conquering your anger.   

How Jesus Changed the Way I Study

Helpful post here for students and anyone else that applies themselves to rigorous study.  Will Little offers suggestions for studying for the sake of the Lord and not our own prideful advancement. 

No Longer an Orphan (But Tempted to Live Like It)

Powerful words here from Christine Hoover as she reflects on the story of Rose Marie Miller.  “Until my late twenties, I spent the majority of my Christian life striving — striving for perfection, for God’s favor, for the approval of others, and for the joy and freedom that the Bible spoke of yet completely eluded me.”

Lecrae’s new album, Gravity, hit stores yesterday.  Here is a sample:

You can buy the album here.  Or you can preview it via stream on this website.

The Blinding Effect of Woundedness

In Tim Keller’s book on marriage, The Meaning of Marriage, he explains the effect that woundedness has on us.  It makes us self-absorbed.  It’s easy to think of other people when reading this quote.  But truth is, it’s pointing right at me:

Woundedness makes us self absorbed…This is not hard to see in others, of course. When you begin to talk to wounded people, it is not long before they begin talking about themselves. They’re so engrossed in their own pain and problems that they don’t realize what they look like to others. They are not sensitive to the needs of others. They don’t pick up the cues of those who are hurting, or, if they do, they only do so in a self-involved way. That is, they do so with a view of helping to “rescue” them in order to feel better about themselves. They get involved with others in an obsessive and controlling way because they are actually meeting their own needs, though they deceive themselves about this. We are always, always the last to see our self-absorption. Our hurts and wounds can make our self-centeredness even more intractable. When you point out selfish behavior to a wounded person, he or she will say, ‘Well, maybe so, but you don’t understand what it is like”. The wounds justify the behavior.  (Keller, The Meaning of Marriage)

This applies to far more than just marriage.  I’m convinced that the only way out of such a self-absorption is to fervently turn our heads away from our wounds and believe that these little deaths are swallowed up in the victory won by the stripes of the Suffering Servant. 

His wounds and not mine are what define me. 

Jesus Loves Our Space Invaders

I have a coffee mug (more a Mountain Dew mug since I’m not yet man enough to drink coffee) sitting on my desk.  It’s very special to me because of the artwork on it.  It has a heart, the letter I, something that looks like a dinosaur or maybe Vermont, I think some space invaders, a purple blob and an equals sign. 

I think it’s supposed to say “I love you daddy”.  But instead I think it says purple blob equals deformed dinosaur, I heart space invaders.  I’m confident the artwork on this will never be featured in the Louvre.  Let’s be honest the artwork is terrible. 

You know my response when I was handed this coffee mug, don’t you?

I didn’t say, “Son, this work that you’ve done here is quite ridiculous.  What is that purple blob?  Is that supposed to be a dinosaur?  Because it doesn’t look like one.  Is this some sort of sorry excuse for abstract art?  Do you really expect me to put this on my desk and use this so that people can actually see it?  You really ought to know better than trying art.  You are four years old.  And you have clearly shown from this little artistic endeavor that art is not your forte.  Now go to your room and give me something that is actually of respectable quality for my birthday.  I’m ashamed to call you my son.”

Yeah, that hurt to even type.  It’s ridiculous to think that even the worst of dads would respond in such a way. 

Then why do we think God views His children differently? 

Because He is holy?  Because His standards are much higher than ours?  Because He cannot look upon sin, and everything we do is tainted with sin and our righteous deeds are like filthy rags? 

And so somehow those truths make God a worse dad than I am?  Nah, I don’t think so.  I agree with Kevin DeYoung when he says,

…for those who have been made right with God by grace alone through faith alone and therefore have been adopted into God’s family, many of our righteous deeds are not only not filthy in God’s eyes, they are exceedingly sweet, precious, and pleasing to him.  (DeYoung, The Hole in our Holiness, 70)

I don’t expect my four year old to create for me a masterpiece.  But I know that every little stroke of that wobbly paintbrush was out of love for his daddy.  And so I love my deformed dinosaur and my space invaders.  When Isaiah handed me this mug, I did what every decent adult does when handed artwork of this caliber from a four-year-old.  I treasured it.  I put it on display. I found that which was really good in it, I highlighted it, and I showered him with thanks and appreciation. 

“As a father shows compassion to his children, so the LORD shows compassion to those who fear him.  For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust.” 

Just as a very flawed earthly father knows to show compassion to his little boy, so our perfect Father knows our frame.  Isn’t it possible that the Lord takes our wobbly efforts and pins them on his celestial refrigerator?  How wonderful it is that though we are but dust the Lord takes great delight in our not yet fully redeemed, still flawed, and still tainted expressions of love! 

Let’s go lovingly paint the best deformed dinosaurs that we know how. 

Today in Blogworld 9.4.12

Inspect but Don’t Introspect

A helpful compilation and commentary here by Justin Taylor.  There is a difference between healthy inspection and morbid introspection.  Knowing that difference is huge. 

We Didn’t Build This: God Did. 

Ed Stetzer shares a few ways that the Gospel Project has surprised even Lifeway.  He also shares a few training videos that would be helpful for your church. 

New 9 Marks E-Journal

The September/October edition of the 9Marks e-journal is now out.  This edition focuses on making disciples in the local church.

A Few Deals for Your E-Reader

Spiritual Leadership by Henry Blackaby only $2.99
New Testament Documents: Are They Reliable by F.F. Bruce only $2.99
Church Planter by Darrin Patrick only $3.99
Rescuing Ambition by Greg Harvey only $3.99
Leaders Who Last by Dave Kraft only $4.99

Season 4 of Parks and Rec. is now on Netflix.  Excited to see that Season 5 will begin on September 20th.  That means only a couple more weeks until the great Ron Swanson returns: