Read This! 03.26.19

Psychoanalyzing Biblical Authors

I appreciate Brandon’s answer to this question.

The Rise and Progress of the Soul in the Valley of Vision

Nerd alert. But a fun look at a great work.

A Horror of Theology

For some reason, I haven’t seen the name Nick Batzig in awhile. Glad to see this article.

What Does “Amen” Mean?

You likely say it daily, but do you know what it means?

Matthew 18 is Not Instructive for Book Reviews, But Much of the New Testament Is

Right on, sister!

14 Biblical Paradoxes Every Christian Should Know

One of my earlier writing projects was on this topic. I was in way over my head.

Are You Writing Headlines for You or Articles for Them?

I think Tim has modeled a ministry of writing “articles for them”.

We All Live in Marx’s World Now

Can we clone Carl Trueman in our brave new world?

So, Toy Story 4?

4 Tips for Helping a Doubting Friend

One of my favorite scenes from The Office involves Andy Bernard pretending to be a mechanic. He and his co-worker (Dwight) are trying to help their boss (Michael) with his encounter with a suspected mob boss who is trying to sell him life insurance. In order to be “undercover” Andy dresses up as a mechanic. At one point Andy is called out to help a woman whose car will not start. This is what happens:

Andy wasn’t really a mechanic. He didn’t really have the answers needed but he pretended like he did and it didn’t turn out so well. We do this same thing when our friends express serious doubts and we find ourselves over our heads. We want to help. Just as Andy had on a mechanic’s uniform and so had expectations upon him, so also when we are known as Christians there is an expectation upon us. And in these times we are tempted to be like Andy Bernard and pretend like we know what we are doing.

Os Guinness has a helpful book called In Two Minds. The book is about the nature of doubt and also has a helpful section for those wanting to help others work through their doubts. Guinness gives four tips for what to do when we find ourselves not able to help a doubting person:

1. If we are unable to help we should say so. Guinness notes that by admitting our inability to help we have “localized the problem”. But if we pretend to know what we are talking about and end up playing the fool, then we are perhaps unwittingly communicating that this is the answer that Christianity has.

2. If we are unable to help we should clarify what this means. What Guinness means here is that we should help the doubter see that this simply means that we do not have an answer at the moment. We are not dismissing these doubts but we are “putting them in the deep-freeze” and bring these doubts out at a different time.

There is a definite place for verification in Christian faith, but if Christianity is true it is not because it is instantly, totally verified at every moment or even at any moment. No human knowledge is of this order of certainty. (230)

3. We should never imply that the answer to doubt will be easy. This does not mean that we have to be so “brutally realistic that we unnerve the poor person in doubt” but it does mean that we acknowledge walking through doubt is likely going to come with some pain. I don’t like having to backtrack. It’s especially frustrating when I have to do it because I’ve been driving 50 miles in the wrong direction. It’s painful to turn around. The pain of this is magnified when we’re dealing with the stuff of real life and admitting that we’ve been wrong in meaningful things.

4. Be careful to steer a course between oversimplifying and overcomplicating your answer. Over simplification is more a mark of our own insecurity than anything else. And overcomplicating something isn’t the evidence of a mind too sharp for the problem but rather a mind too small interacting with too complex of a problem. Be aware of our tendency to oversimplify and to overcomplicate. Just be real. Entrust the person to God.

In my experience I’ve been able to provide the most help when I have a happy confidence in the sovereignty of God. Remembering that God loves the person in front of me far more than I do is helpful. It’s helpful to remember that God does all things for our good—even putting us through the furnace of doubt. This helps to put doubt into perspective. God is up to something.

I’ll close with these words from Guinness:

The danger we face when we have been a help to someone is that we confuse our faith in God with our ability to answer doubts about God. Once we do that, we are not trusting God but our faith in God. (234)

God is big enough to handle your doubt and insecurity. He is also big enough to handle the doubts and insecurity of your friend. Best to love them and be honest with them. Don’t try to be a mechanic when you’re just a paper salesman.

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When Redemption Wakes You Up Angry

I do not like getting woke up in the middle of the night. My wife still laughs at how emotionally taxed I was when our children were very young and would wake us up in the middle of the night. I don’t think I modeled Jesus in those moments. So I have to confess that I don’t know what my response would have been if a real shiny fella woke me up after finally falling asleep in a prison cell.

“He struck Peter on the side and woke him, saying, ‘Get up quickly.’”

Okay, it’s one thing to have somebody wake you up. It’s quite another to have somebody strike you and tell you to get up quickly. I’m really surprised that the Bible has Peter only in a stupor and not in a raged stupor. Or even a bedraggled Peter fighting the angel and refusing to away from his slumber.

This poke has the ability to infuriate the sleeping disciple. But it’s the means to his rescue.

Scroll down a few more verses and you see another angelic poke. The same word is used in Acts 12:23 that was used in 12:7. The angel (was it the same one?) struck down Herod for his pride. One poke killed while the other redeemed.

In our slumber we can mistake the two. We can think that the angelic strike is meant to to enrage us, to do us harm, to destroy us. When you’re awakened by a strike and a loud “get up” you can feel as if God isn’t being good to you. You can feel as if His call is coming at an incredibly inconvenient time. I mean, couldn’t the angel have waited until Peter wasn’t sleeping? Why wait until he is clearly in his REM cycle to strike him and get him going? God could have pulled a Philip and teleported Peter out of prison. Why does it require an angelic blow?

But redemption isn’t convenient. God had to wake up Peter to get him out of prison. And he likely is going to have to strike you and wake you up to work redemption in your life. This isn’t the stuff of rainbows and cupcakes and unicorns. This is the stuff of angelic power that can move iron bars and slip a convict through a host of guards. But it’s also the type of power that can kill a man, ask Herod.

And so when we are face to face with this redemptive power we can feel as if God’s redemption isn’t sweet but deadly. And it is. It takes power to remove chains. But God will stop at nothing to put Peter back in the house of John Mark and set back upon His mission. James experienced the sword. His work was done. But Peter’s work wasn’t finished and so he was invincible. But being invincible doesn’t mean that you won’t get struck by an angel.

I would likely word a few things differently and his struggle is not my own. But I’ve learned a ton about sanctification interacting with Wesley Hill’s Washed and Waiting. Consider this:

British theologian John Webster speaks of “the church facing the resistance of the gospel,” meaning that if the gospel brings comfort, it also necessarily brings affliction.  The gospel resists the fallen inclinations of Christian believers.  When we engage with God in Christ and take seriously the commands for purity that flow from the gospel, we always find our sinful dreams and desires challenged and confronted.  When we homosexual Christians bring our sexuality before God, we begin or continue a long, costly process of having it transformed.  From God’s perspective, our homoerotic inclinations are like “the craving for salt of a person who is dying of thirst” (to borrow Fredric Buechner’s phrase).  Yet when God begins to try to change the craving and give us the living water that will ultimately quench our thirst, we scream in pain, protesting that we were made for salt.  The change hurts.

If you’re in Christ every strike is meant to awaken you and bring you into conformity to Jesus. And this is our greatest good. It’s not meant to deal a death blow as it was to Herod. Every thing he does is for your good. We’ve got to preach this truth to ourselves in our waking and sane hours so that we’re just in a stupor when the Spirit strikes us in our slumber. Otherwise we’ll respond to His redemption with rage.

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Read This! 03.21.19

Should I Start a Blog Or Write for Edited Websites?

I agree. There is a benefit to both. But I’ve also decided long ago that I won’t trade my voice for platform. I’d rather keep my voice to a small audience than surrender it to a larger one.

The Perfectionist’s Enemy: How it Paralyzes and Procrastinates

Yep.

Pastor, Be What You Want to See

Sound advice. And this doesn’t happen overnight.

Why Charismatics and Non-Charismatics Can Get Along

I appreciate Dr. Schreiner’s work in this area. 

“Do Rich People Stuff” and Other Unhelpful Advice

There are some great principles with Dave Ramsey. And there is an uncharitable way to read him. But I really appreciate how Matt Poppe has written in this balanced perspective.

The Disturbing Temptations of Pastoring in Obscurity

I really appreciate this brother’s honesty.

Does Hebrews 6 Teach that We Should Move On from the Gospel?

I bet if you see who wrote this you’ll guess his answer.

3 Ways to Fight Cynicism When Church Members Leave

It always hurts.

This guy might be the worst boxer in history, though I’m sure he could still take me: