Read This! 05.14.19

My Son Needed the Love of the Church. I Wasn’t Sure It Was Possible.

Those with special needs children is almost becoming an unreached people group. This needs to change.

The New Thought Police?

I’m incredibly disturbed by this. Not because I’m a conspiracy theorist but because I’ve watched my own traffic plummet because of things like this. It’s harder to get information out there. And if we don’t learn to change the way we receive our information we’re going to lose this freedom.

4 Reasons the Wilderness is Not a Waste

We need to be reminded of this after dark seasons. 

Why Did Jesus Need to Be Baptized?

I’ve gotten this question a few times.

Be Wiersbe

What a wonderfully creative title.

9Marks Journal

The latest 9Marks journal on church membership.

Overcoming a Critical Spirit

A helpful summary of this important issue.

How to Have an Insignificant Ministry

Yeah, that’ll do it.

D.A. Carson and Michael Kruger discuss persistent myths about the NT:

Our Identity Is Not in Their Performance

Transforming Grace by Jerry Bridges was one of the most life-changing books I’ve read. Paragraphs like this one brought me so much freedom:

Living by grace instead of by works means you are free from the performance treadmill. It means God has already given you an “A” when you deserved an “F.” He has already given you a full day’s pay even though you may have worked for only one hour. It means you don’t have to perform certain spiritual disciplines to earn God’s approval. Jesus Christ has already done that for you. You are loved and accepted by God through the merit of Jesus, and you are blessed by God through the merit of Jesus. Nothing you ever do will cause Him to love you any more or any less. He loves you strictly by His grace given to you through Jesus. (Transforming Grace, 73)

I was about three years into my first youth ministry position when I hit rock bottom (or at least it was bottom for me at the time—I’d find myself going a bit deeper into the well of depression a bit later). My identity was attached to my performance. If someone wasn’t happy with me I was devastated. I couldn’t take criticism in any form. I was insecure and miserable. I couldn’t handle the weight of my own sin. And I was going through serious doubts. Reading through Transforming Grace helped me to hop off this performance treadmill.

During that season the Lord engrained a principle very deeply into my being. My identity is firmly fixed in Christ and it is not wrapped up in my performance. As Bunyan said so many years before, “my righteousness is in heaven and it’s not dependent upon my good frames or my bad frames”. My standing with the Father is already settled. My record is established. I am in union with Christ and all that He has is delivered to my account.

This truth was a balm for the soul of Mike the disciple. But somehow this truth wasn’t impacting Mike the pastor. I knew that my relationship with God was settled. I knew that he was pleased with me as his child. But somehow I still went through seasons were I felt like a failure as a pastor.

Henry Blackaby defined spiritual leadership as “moving people from where they are to where God wants them to be.” I don’t necessarily disagree with this definition, but it meant that I was failing as a spiritual leader. Or at least that was how I saw it in those dark nights of the soul. In all of this I maintained that my identity was not attached to my performance, but somehow my identity was becoming attached to their performance. And it was killing me.

The failure of those I had discipled became my failure. Business meetings which went south reflected upon me as the leader. When the church stagnated, when evangelism was lax, and when change wasn’t happening it meant that I was failing. I spiraled into a deep depression—or maybe crippling anxiety is the better term.

Then Jesus caught me.

That lesson I had learned so many years before broke through again. Not only is my identity not attached to my performance it’s also not attached to their performance. I didn’t have to try to control my environment anymore. I just had to be faithful in loving Jesus through loving people and proclaiming truth. I am not in charge of how you respond. This has been an incredibly freeing truth for me.

I am hidden in Christ.

This is true not just as a disciple, but also as a pastor.

I’m simply an under-shepherd who is tasked with faithfully delivering the message of the Chief Shepherd. Period. I can’t shake people into responding correctly. Nor take credit when they respond rightly. It’s his church. Not mine. And that frees me to love and rest and stand in awe of His concern for His Bride.

My identity is fixed in Christ. My performance and their performance can never change that.

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Read This! 05.09.19

Why Facebook’s Ban Warrant Concern

It is concerning.

Porn is Not Ultimately About Sex

This gets to the root of the issue.

Pastor, You Need Rest

Amen!

Are You an Emotionally Healthy Leader?

Helpful questions.

Pastor, There is Something More Important Than Being Right

For some of us, this has been a hard lesson to learn.

How John 1:5 Helps Me From Falling Into Pessimism and Despair

I appreciate Sam Storms’ writing on this.

4 Ways to Keep Your Pastor From Quitting

Personally, I think it’s the Lord who ultimately keeps the pastors from quitting. But the Scriptures call us to work to make pastoring a joy for our local pastors.

Encyclopedia Brown and the Case of the Mysterious Author

I loved these books as a kid.

In honor of Mother’s Day:

The Art of the Unintended Consequence

It doesn’t really matter which side of the horse the drunk guy falls off of, does it? He’s muddy and miserable regardless. Likewise, our enemy doesn’t really care which side of error we fall into—so long as we fall.

I appreciate these words of Os Guinness. Speaking as an operative trying to destroy Christianity he says this:

What happens when one strand of reality is singled out and stretched too far is hardly surprising. Wider reality springs back and has the last laugh. Pressed too far, for example, reason becomes rationalism and rebounds into mysticism; or freedom becomes anarchy and rebounds into authoritarianism. We thus become masters of irony, connoisseurs of the art of the unintended consequence. Reality rebounds, and things turn out the opposite of what they seem and what people expect. Strength becomes weakness, love pornography, pleasure boredom and so on. (Guinness, 22)

Those words were written in 1983. And they are, in my opinion, quite prophetic. “Connoisseurs of the art of the unintended consequence”. Is that what we bloggers have become? I’ve been blogging for over a decade now and I’ve watched this spring bounce back and forth.

Discernment ministry was once done well—or at least better. Blogging was helpful in fighting against a shallow Christianity which could never survive the days ahead. But discernment quickly turned into rage. A culture of fear, suspicion, oppression, and infighting soon emerged. Everybody but our own little section of the internet became rank heretics. Nuance was lost.

So what’s the unintended consequence? Likely, the idea that love matters more than truth. The very watered-down truth-light Christianity that discernment ministries were created to combat will now run amok.

But love doesn’t matter more than truth. And truth isn’t faithful unless it’s also walking in love. This is the argument of 2 John.

4 I rejoiced greatly to find some of your children walking in the truth, just as we were commanded by the Father. 5 And now I ask you, dear lady—not as though I were writing you a new commandment, but the one we have had from the beginning—that we love one another. 6 And this is love, that we walk according to his commandments; this is the commandment, just as you have heard from the beginning, so that you should walk in it.

It’s impossible to grow in love outside of the context of truth. We think that if we will go easy on truth that some how we’ll be able to love one another more deeply. But this isn’t the case. If it isn’t in truth then it’s a sham. And fake love isn’t deep enough to hold the weight of our sinful and community-destroying tendencies. But real love, grounded in truth love, is big enough to bear this weight.

The answer to angry discerning bloggers isn’t to minimize truth. They are correct that truth matters. But they hang themselves on their own petard when they do discernment without love. You don’t discover wolves in sheep’s clothing by living in fear and suspicion. Because fear and suspicion don’t flow out of the character of Christ. You discover wolves by love—rooted and grounded, flowing out of contentment in Christ, love.

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