Today in Blogworld 08.06.14

Bring Back the Holy Kiss

Megan Hill reflects on an important exhortation.

Suicide, Christians and the Church: A Reflection

Dave Miller does a great job of discussing suicide in light of recent high profile suicides.

A Tale of Two Book Reviews

This applies far beyond book reviews and even theological conversations.

5 Strange Baseball Rules

Here are the five strangest rules in baseball.

I think I know how this illusionist pulled off this stunt. But it’s still impressive:

Pray For Your Husband: 31 Day Challenge–Day Six

Day Six: That He Would Make War

Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might.  Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. -Ephesians 6:10-11

God wants us and our husbands to make war.  Against the world with all its temptations, against their flesh that so easily sways them, and against our enemy the devil who wants to steal, in any way possible, the glory that is due to God.  Our hearts are idol making factories (Calvin) with an assembly line churning out more and more every minute.  Pray with me that your husband would be able to make war against lust, greed, pride, and a whole other host of sins to the glory of God.  With the world, our flesh, and the devil trying to take us down – now is not the time for him (and us) to rest on our laurels and give up the fight just because he has been given the greatest gift of all – salvation.  If your husband is not yet saved, I would pray that his eyes are opened as he sees you fighting the fight.

Father God, you are wonderful.  You have captivated our hearts and set your love on us.  We are yours and so grateful to be called your children.  Thank you for your everlasting love, for the grace you have given us and the abundant mercy you have shown.  Lord, we come for our own sake and for the sake of our husbands that you would help us in our fight against sin.  Help us to see worldly temptations for what they are, garbage, compared to the kingdom that awaits us.  Help our husband to make war against the flesh that lies and tells him that what he wants right now is the only thing that matters.  Help him to see that the father of lies wants to steal glory from you Father and help our husbands to know that the blood you shed is the victory over satan and the wickedness he is trying to sell.  God we are so weak.  We need you to be our help, our strength, and our armor.  Help us to fight as we know that you are fighting for us.  Show us where we have failed you and lead us in the right direction.  We want our husbands and our families to be holy and wholly devoted to you Lord.  We pray that you transform our hearts and help us to be an example, and encouragement, and respectful wife to our husbands.  In Jesus Name, Amen.

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Bethany Wilhite is wife of Michael who is the meterologist at SouthernIndianaWeather.com, and the mother of Abigail, age 7 . Bethany attends True Vine Baptist Church in Ferdinand, IN

What Loving the Unlovable Looks Like

You’ve likely never heard of her. She died a recluse in 1933. Having never married and living most of her life deaf and bedridden by a spinal problem, her name threatened to fall through the cracks of history. That would have been a shame because she single-handedly changed the course of American history.

Her name is Julia Sand.

The world was unaware of her name and her profound influence until a stack of twenty-three papers were uncovered in 1958. Encased in those letters were words that changed a would-be president.

The Deplorable Arthur

In 1881 President James A. Garfield was on his death-bed, having been the victim of not only a deranged lunatic but also an arrogant and ignorant doctor. He’d be dead by September of 1881 and a man most unsuited for the job, Chester A. Arthur, would take over as president of the nation.

When you think of everything you hate about politics let the mustachioed face of Chester Arthur come across your mind’s eye. He embodied everything that is wrong with politics. He was but a puppet in the hands of a powerful political machine in his day.  He was the least qualified of all vice-presidents.

As the nation grieved the loss of Garfield they also feared what an Arthur presidency would mean. In fact some were even accusing Arthur’s cohorts (and even Arthur himself) of being responsible for the president’s death. Apart from Garfield’s assassin, Arthur was one of the most hated men in the nation.

In August of 1881, thirty-one year old Julia Sand took up her pen and wrote to Chester Arthur:

“Your kindest opponents say ‘Arthur will try to do right’ – adding gloomily – ‘He won’t succeed though making a man President cannot change him.’…But making a man President can change him! Great emergencies awaken generous traits which have lain dormant half a life. If there is a spark of true nobility in you, now is the occasion to let it shine. Faith in your better nature forces me to write to you – but not to beg you to resign. Do what is more difficult & brave. Reform! It is not proof of highest goodness never to have done wrong, but it is proof of it, sometimes in ones career, to pause & ponder, to recognize the evil, to recognize the evil, to turn resolutely against it…. Once in awhile there comes a crisis which renders miracles feasible. The great tidal wave of sorrow which has rolled over the country has swept you loose from your old moorings & set you on a mountaintop, alone.”

Her words, here and in the twenty something other letters, must have stuck. Arthur did exactly as Sand counseled him. She believed in Arthur when it seemed nobody else in the entire world did. He set about to reform not only his ways but to continue the reforms that James Garfield had started.

Chester B. Arthur was a changed man and turned into a respectable president.

The Truly Unlovable

It will come as no shock that I am using this illustration to encourage you to be as Julia Sand; namely, believing in someone when nobody else will. The very truths of our theology—that God is powerful and that God redeems—necessitates that we take a posture like Julia Sand towards even the most deplorable of human beings.

What really catches my attention with this story, though, is the type of guy that Chester Arthur was. When I hear things like, “loving the unlovable” I have a certain picture that forms in my mind. It’s the guy that has been typecast as “unlovable” but yet evokes what is likely a Hollywood driven sentimentality in my heart. He’s the homeless guy that is really a fun-loving chap that just needs a second chance. She’s the down and out hooker that is really a great mom backed in a corner and doing whatever she can to provide for her curly-headed little kid.

When I hear things like, “loving the unlovable” I never think about the people that truly are difficult to love. You know,  true state of the art jerks. Men like Chester Arthur.

I never think of the abusive man who makes life a living hell for his children and their mother. I don’t think that loving the unlovable really applies to such victimizers.

It’s not the abrasive and abusive pastor that comes to mind when I think about loving the unlovable. I can firmly entrench him in my Pharisee column and dismiss him. I can remind myself that Jesus had the harshest words for the religious elite, and so cut off all hope of his reform.

It’s not these jerks and bullies who come to my mind when I think of loving the unlovable. When I think of the “unlovable”, what comes to my mind are the harlots, the sexual deviants, the outcasts of society, the demon-possessed, the lepers, you know those guys—the mostly lovable people that have been deemed by society as the unlovable.

It’s not victimizers that come to my mind. It’s the sinners. The tax collectors…

Wait!

Tax collectors.

These are the Chester A. Arthurs. The jerks that are truly easy to hate. The victimizers. The abusers. The cheats. The snakes. The politicians. The guys that use their power to abuse helpless women.

If I’m really going to say, “I want to be like Julia Sand”, then I need to know what I’m saying. I’m saying that I love a man like Chester Arthur and I have the chutzpah and the confidence in Almighty God that I lovingly confront him with gospel hope.

Is this what you mean when you talk about loving the unlovable?

Today in Blogworld 08.05.14

Journal As a Pathway to Joy

I don’t journal as much as I once did. This post inspired me to pick it up again.

In Praise of Ordinary Summers

Summer is pretty much over. (Why is school starting so early these days?) Maybe your summer was ordinary. If it was this article will give you some perspective.

The Marks of a Spiritual Leader

John Piper has a new free ebook available.

5 Things Forgiveness Doesn’t Mean

Helpful reminder.

I’m going on vacation in a few weeks. I’ll have to remember this: