Pray For Your Husband: 31 Day Challenge–Day 10

Day 10: That He Would Know the Father’s Love

And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate. For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.’ And they began to celebrate .Luke 15: 21-24

It’s so easy to forget that this is how our Father in heaven loves us. We tend to start feeling this sense of ‘doom and gloom’ when we think of repentance and forgiveness.  We forget that our Father is peering over the horizon, anxious to see us coming, and ready to embrace us and celebrate the fact that we have come home once again.

Lord, I pray today that my husband would know this kind of love. I pray that he would not fall for the lie that he has messed up too much and therefore hesitate to run back home to you. I pray he would experience the joy of repentance…and see that there truly is a celebration awaiting him. That because of the life and death of your son, Jesus…you take great delight in him! I pray the pressures and demands of his day would not cause him to forget that you there, awaiting his return…but that they would be reminders of his desperate need to stay close to you.

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Follower of Jesus, Wife of a Police Sergeant/Pastor, Mom of 5. The Gospel changes everything. It’s my joy to write about that.
Writer/Blogger at kimberleysuchta.com

Pray For Your Husband: 31 Day Challenge–Day Nine

Day Nine: That He Would Be  Witness in the Workplace

 … let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven Matt. 4:16

Every day we live for Christ before a watching world. Christ’s exhortation to those who sat before him as he preached the Sermon on the Mount is for us today, and for our husbands as they work day to day in their places of employment.

Father, I pray for my husband as he goes to work in the world each day. Thank you for the work you give him to do which provides for our family. Thank you for using his skills and abilities for this vocation, this calling from you. As you have placed him specifically in his place of work, strengthen him each day as he lives as a light for you. Give him utterance to speak the words you would have him say, and protect him as he strives to work with integrity. Keep him respectful and gracious not only to his superiors, but also toward those he works with and those who work for him. Help him to be kind, fair, and gentle with others, so that others will see Christ reflected in his conduct. Enable him to work alongside those who may be hostile to his witness. Help him to be longsuffering and patient in hard circumstances. Father, it can be hard to work day in and day out where we feel hostility surround us. Remind my husband each day the value of his work and the importance of his witness.

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Kim Shay is a wife, mother, bible teacher and blogger who lives in Canada. She has been married for 27 years, and has three young adult children. She blogs regularly at The Upward Call.

Out of Darkness Out of Shame (YWS week 31)

richardsibbessmallWelcome to a year of reading Richard Sibbes together! The reading plan for the entire year can be accessed here. I encourage you to stick with us, allow yourself time to read, and soak in the riches of this gifted and prolific Puritan preacher. You will be edified and encouraged.

If you have trouble with how Sibbes used words, check out the Lexicons of Early Modern English for definitions from the period.

Summary/Engagement

Sin. Impurity. Filth. Imperfection. Blackness.

The Church, and you, are indeed black. We are imperfect and will war with sin until we die or Christ returns. Contrary to what some faiths would teach there is no possibility of perfection in this life. Our nature is one corrupted by sin from conception to death. We are incapable of pleasing God and live in open rebellion against him until he saves us.

Do you remember the day of your salvation? Do you remember the incalculable joy, the overflowing zeal, and the immeasurable passion and gratitude? I remember the settling of a calm over my heart and mind that I never had. I remember the sudden passion I had to share this good news with everyone. Eventually, the fires of sin lapped at the edges of my grove of peace. They flashed and raged and threatened to burn it all down. In my immaturity I came to the realization that it would not be all easy sunshine and roses from here on out. In fact, I came to understand that it would in many ways be harder.

“The church of God and Christians, whilst they are here, are in an unperfect state. No Christian in this life attains to full happiness and brightness, but is attended on by those sins and sorrows that argue an unperfect estate. The church of God, and every converted Christian, must needs confess that they be black outwardly and inwardly.”

Application / Further Discussion

Many of you can relate to the zeal and joy of conversion followed by the crashing down of sorrow like waves on the beach. Waves never take the beach in one sweep, they wear over time. So sin and the Devil seeks to wear us down wave by wave, grain of sand by grain of sand, until there is nothing left. The world looks at us and asks why we are not perfect. They point to our hypocrisy and sin and say we must not be Christians.

Yes, we are sinners. We are black, as Sibbes says, with imperfection. We are worse than the world, our friends, and even our families know. Our hearts are dark alleys that outsiders don’t walk down. Yet, in Christ God has redeemed us and given us a new nature. We are no longer slaves to walk down those dark alleys in our hearts. He has given us his Holy Spirit to help us.

God uses our imperfections to humble us, make us patient, and render us pitiable. We are a sinful and hypocritical people. The church is full of people who, if honest when asked how they are doing, might not say “great!” We might instead say, “I’m struggling with this or that.” We should not hide our afflictions. We cannot. Salvation is the realization that we are sinners, and in need of a Savior. That sin has not gone away. Indeed, Sibbes says of the church;

“And to seek her comfort in Christ Jesus. Oh it doth her good to receive the sentence of death, shame, poverty, damnation, in herself, that so she may be found in Christ, arrayed with rich robes of his righteousness. Hence her plain-hearted openness in confession. Let us do the like, and leave it to the harlot and whore of Babylon to say herself is a queen, she is glorious, she cannot err.”

We Christians suffer and fight against sin to varying degrees. But we all suffer and fight sin. Let the world see our blackness, our imperfections. They know they are imperfect and have that commonality with us. They recognize, in their criticisms of the church, that we are all sinners. It is from this that we hold forth the good news. Christ Jesus is God who saves sinners. Humble yourself, repent, and believe.

You who suffer, “Are afflictions upon thee? Be sensible of them, be humbled in them, but never shrink from the hold of Christ or hope of mercy.” You are Christ’s. Drink deeply from the well that never runs dry. Be satisfied in the waters of the eternal spring of Christ Jesus. Hold fast to Jesus Christ, though storms rage and sin threatens to burn it all down. Hold fast your confession to the end. This world is passing away, do not let go of him for temporary foolishness or comfort. All storms come to an end, and so to will this life and its suffering. Live your life to the glory of God, in the joy of his salvation, and wait for that day when all things are made right.

“But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. Once you were not a people, but now you are God’s people; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy.” (1 Peter 2:9–10)  

We have been called out of darkness into his marvelous light. Wretches invited to the dinner table as honored guests. Like Joseph, we have been summoned from prison, bathed, and put on clean robes. Our robes are the righteousness of Christ. There is more mercy in Christ than sin in you.

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Last week, we The Saint’s Happiness.

Next week, we read The Rich Pearl. Here is an audio recording of Mark Dever reading it in its entirety.

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