Today in Blogworld 11.11.14

12 Ways to Make (and Keep) Friends

With a little help from Cruciform’s latest title, David Murray gives us twelve ways to make and keep friends.

How I Learned to Embrace the Stand and Greet Time

This is a good word for us introverts.

A Muckracking Magazine

This is in an interesting piece by the NY Times on World magazine.

How Can You Tell If Someone Has Truly Repented?

“We cannot go through our lives afraid that we might forgive the unrepentant. We ought to go through our lives afraid we have failed to forgive the repentant. With the former we may allow ourselves to be wrong, with the latter we are wronging others.” R.C. Sproul Jr.

Why Jeremiah Has Been Rocking My Soul

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I’ve been reading through Jeremiah during my quiet times. It’s tearing me up.

“Lift up your eyes to the bare heights, and see! Where have you not been ravished? By the waysides you have sat awaiting lovers…” (Jeremiah 3:2)

Ouch. There isn’t a single place in all the land that you haven’t defiled with your harlotry. Not one square inch. And then she has the audacity to do this:

For they have turned their back to me, and not their face. But in the time of their trouble they say, ‘Arise and save us!’ (Jeremiah 2:27)

A woman has just finished giving herself to a man that is not her husband and she goes out and finds that her car has a flat tire. She knows nothing about changing a flat tire and her sugar daddy isn’t much help with such things. Her husband, though, he’s an expert. And so from her lovers house she calls up her hubby and has the audacity to ask him to come to her lovers house and change her flat.

This is what is happening in Jeremiah.

God and the Tire Change

And here is the crazy thing. There are many times when he comes and changes the flat tire. That’s what we see in Hosea. Jeremiah. Ezekiel. Isaiah. All over the Bible. God meets the harlot with mercy and kindness.

Of course this kindness is meant to lead her to repentance. But instead she gets the crazy idea that this God isn’t really just. He isn’t really all that powerful. He doesn’t really care about sin. He won’t do anything to us. He’ll always change the tire. That’s just who he is.

Until one day he doesn’t.

Like in Jeremiah 2:28—when God essentially says, “have your sugar daddy change the tire”. On those days he leaves us in the weak hands of our feeble idols. He challenges us—and them– “See if they can save you”.

And they don’t. Sugar Daddy can’t change a flat tire. He’s just a shiny underwear model–a set of chiseled abs whose only function is to make promises he can’t keep. And like every other idol when it comes to dealing with the wreckage of your life, he’s hopeless.

When Sugar Daddy Fails

And when the sugar daddy fails what does the harlot do?

Naturally, she gets upset at her husband for not coming and changing the tire. How dare he? Doesn’t he love me? How could he be so unfaithful? How could he be such a jerk?

Here is where I’m astounded by grace.

I’m the harlot in this story. Even as a Christian I see remnants of this harlotry in my heart. I’ve had the audacity to call out to God when my idols have failed me. And I’ve been even more audacious to question his goodness and love when he tells me that I’ve got to set in the consequence of my sin.

But here is the crazy part. Both of God’s responses to my foolishness are meant root out sin and unbelief and create in me a heart to enjoy Him more. It’s to win me over—for my good and for His glory.

When he comes and changes the flat tire his kindness and mercy is meant to lead me to repentance. Sweet repentance. Where I realize the emptiness of my idols and the beauty of my God.

When he tells me to get my own tire changed his rod of correction is meant to lead me back home. He hasn’t abandoned me. He’s leading me. He’s loving me. He’s rescuing me. He’s showing me up close how futile my idols are and how wayward my heart really is.

Conclusion

He is radically dedicated to rooting idolatry out of my heart and replacing it with a passionate worship of Him.

He should have cast me off. He should have hung up the phone and left me permanently to the emptiness of my idols. But he gives me grace. Time and time and time again.

He could have just as easily chosen to not lavish grace upon me. My story could just as easily have been that his kindness and mercy never led me to repentance. And in this instance each change of the tire would have been heaping up wrath. His handing me over wouldn’t have been to win me back—it would have just been a foreshadow of the hell to come.

But he didn’t. He gave me grace.

How in the world can I ever complain about anything?

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Today in Blogworld 11.10.14

5 Reasons to Confront Even If You Hate Confrontation

Avoiding confrontation—when it’s necessary—is never a good decision. Here are five reasons why.

How Should We Then Mock?

Should Christians ever mock? I appreciate Jeremy Larson’s answer.

31 Movies Better When One Letter Is Dropped

I found this amusing.

The Zimzum of Love: Review

You won’t see me give much attention to Rob Bell’s new book on marriage. But I appreciate the writing in this review more than anything. This is satire done well.

This is every business meeting you’ve ever been in:

Walking Idols (YWS Week 44)

richardsibbessmallWelcome to a year of reading Richard Sibbes together! The reading plan for the entire year can be accessed here. I encourage you to stick with us, allow yourself time to read, and soak in the riches of this gifted and prolific Puritan preacher. You will be edified and encouraged.

If you have trouble with how Sibbes used words, check out the Lexicons of Early Modern English for definitions from the period.

Summary/Engagement

Fat. Skinny. Tall. Short. Frumpy. Old. Withered. Young. Deformed. Broken.

All words used to describe the bodies of men and women. Words that wound our hearts or bring joy. The pressure of the world to conform ourselves to an idolized image is heavy. Advertising tells us in subtle or not so subtle ways that we must each be Adonis or Venus. We lie to ourselves and say if we can just lose that weight, fit in that pair of jeans, if only we were taller, younger, bigger, smaller, blonde, brunette, if only we had hair, we would be happy.

Our idols are carefully painted and sculpted celebrities. Hair, perfect. Bodies, fit. Smiles, bright and white. That voice inside says, “this is what it means to be happy.” We covet health and body type and strength and perceived beauty. Our idols are mortal men and women who we have turned into little gods, supposing that in them is the key to happiness. Whether another, or our own body, we craft that idol in our heart into such perfection as has never been seen by man. Some of us even think we have achieved it.

Yet we are vile. Poor. Pitiable. Wretched. “For you say, I am rich, I have prospered, and I need nothing, not realizing that you are wretched, pitiable, poor, blind, and naked.” (Rev 3:17) 

“The fairest body is but well-coloured dust.”

Application / Further Discussion

We obscure the truth with our unhealthy fascination with the physical. We were made from dust, and to dust we will return. That is, until that great and awesome day of the Lord. We are preoccupied with our bodies because they are failing. Failing from birth under the effects of sin. Our sinful appetites can leave us eating too much or too little. Age breaks down once strong muscles and proud backs. Disease wracks the body until we are left whimpering in pain. We start to long for death, hoping then we will be released from this apparent prison of our mortal bodies.

Yet, our bodies are not prisons for the soul. We are not souls that happen to have a body. We are a union of body and soul. In Adam, we have sinful natures, and are sinful, the effects of which lead to death. Yet we are not left there, those of us whose hope is in Christ. Christ is a forerunner of what is to come. He was fully man and fully God. He died on the cross to atone for the sins of all who would believe. His resurrection is proof that his sacrifice was acceptable to God. He returned from the grave, alive, glorified.

This is our sure and certain hope. “Our body shall be like his glorious body, not equal to his glorious body.” We shall be like him, but not be equal to him. He is the head upon which the crown of glory rests. We are the body, who obey his commands and accomplish his will. He is a foretaste of what will be.

Do not, then, make idols of the body. If we are temples of the Holy Spirit, then let us treat our bodies with care. Live healthy, exercise, and take care of your body, yes. However do not live in base hedonism, seeking pleasure and comfort above all other things. Our bodies are tools. “Let every member of this vile body, while we live here, be a weapon of a sanctified soul; a weapon of righteousness ready to do good.”

When Christ bids us home, we will go, and He will give us glorified bodies. Yours may have failed you. Disease, sickness, age, etc. may seem to stand in your way to happiness. Yet happiness is not found in the physical. Don’t look to other people and their sinful bodies as though in them is happiness and the light of life. No, they are painted corpses. Covered in a veneer, an illusion, but underneath still dying and decaying as we all are.

Our hope is in the age to come, not in our failing shadows here. Our treasure is in heaven, not the fool’s gold of this world. Our treasure is Christ.

   “I tell you this, brothers: flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable. Behold! I tell you a mystery. We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed. For this perishable body must put on the imperishable, and this mortal body must put on immortality. When the perishable puts on the imperishable, and the mortal puts on immortality, then shall come to pass the saying that is written: “Death is swallowed up in victory.” “O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting?” The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain.” (1 Corinthians 15:50–58, ESV)

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Last week, we read The Bride’s Longing.

Next week, we read The Art of Contentment.