Today in Blogworld 03.11.15

7 Ways We Can Guard and Repair Relationships

Ray Ortlund doesn’t write a ton but when he does it is usually brilliant.

Finding Joy in Your Kids’ Clutter

I needed this, I stepped on a LEGO last night.

Parenting Means Wrestling Demons

Parenting isn’t easy and not just because you occasionally step on a LEGO.

10 Reasons Preaching Is Scary

This ought to sober us preachers.

I want to be this guy when I grow up. He faked his way onto many morning shows as a chef:

Review of The Happy Christian by David Murray

What is the most realistically positive book ever written? Is it something by Oprah? Perhaps Peale’s classic, The Power of Positive Thinking? Something else on the self-help list?

If you agree with David Murray, your answer is that the most realistically positive book in the world is the Bible (xxiii). This is why he has written The Happy Christian. Murray’s contention is that Christians have swallowed too much of our cultural negativity and we’ve become out of balance. In this book he gives ten helps for Christians to live in Christian happiness even in our gloomy world.

What is Christian happiness? Murray defines it thus:

Christian happiness is a God-centered, God-glorifying, and God-given sense of God’s love that is produced by right relationship to God in Christ and that produces loving service of God and others. (xix)

Murray has written this book so that believers would be happy in God—or at least happier. He works to accomplish this goal using a rather strange means….math. Yuck! But Murray’s math is positive math. It is “ten simple formulas, which will add up to a grand total of a positive faith and life.” (xxiv)

Summary

In the first chapter Murray’s equation is that Facts > Feelings. This was, in my opinion, one of the most helpful chapters. Here we are given a helpful grid for finding the facts in the midst of our feelings and circumstances.

The second equation is that Good News > Bad News. Here Murray takes on the negative media that we so often consume. This is a much needed chapter. He even encourages pastors to preach the good news more than the bad news.

His third formula is that done > do. Here he looks at the finished work of Christ in the gospel. This bleeds over into this fourth chapter which is that Christ > Christians. Yes, believers are messed up—but Jesus isn’t. This is a tremendously helpful chapter for anyone who gets frustrated with fellow believers.

The fifth formula is that future > past. Here the reader is given a reason for having firm biblical hope in spite of our past mistakes. What God has planned for us is much better than anything in our past.

The sixth and seventh equations are connected. One is that everywhere grace > everywhere sin. This chapter looks at common grace. The next chapter looks at praise > criticism. Even in our messed up world there are things and people to praise. The more we praise others and the more we see God’s grace everywhere the happier we will be.

Eighth, we learn that giving > getting. Givers are happier than hoarders. Ninth, those who work hard are actually happier than those who play hard. He closes out the book by looking at the blessings of diversity.

My Take

This will likely be in my top three best books of 2015. The first four chapter for me where life-changing. I’ve made it no secret that I’ve battled depression. I needed this book at this time to begin putting some positive graces in place of negative thinking. Far too many books dealing with depression and wrong thinking are negative and defeatist in tone.

Murray might have done more for my mental health in this book than he did in Christians Get Depressed Too (which I found immensely helpful). Reading this book I feel like I’m given a few great tools to help me fight.

I do wish that the book had been a tad shorter. One of the things I appreciated about Christian Get Depressed Too is that it was mercifully brief. I think there is much more to talk about on this topic, though, and so I understand why it is longer. Truthfully we have been given an eternity of things to be happy about. Yet, for this particular book I think it might have been better to have been just a bit shorter.

Nonetheless, this is one of the best books you will read. It is written clearly, graciously, and perceptively. You will be rebuked, encouraged, and drawn to the happy Christ.

This book is also realistic. It is not some sort of pop-psychology mumbo jumbo that calls us to be happy in spite of the facts. No, Murray takes real biblical truths and focuses our eyes upon them instead of the gloomy news of today. In this regard he is doing the same work that the apostle Paul did in places like Romans 8; namely, fixing our gaze on the happiness of heaven.

You’ll want to pick this one up for sure. You can do so here.

Today in Blogworld 03.10.15

Why You Don’t Need a Bucket List

Great word from Randy Alcorn.

Wocka Wocka!

As a fan of the Muppets I found this an interesting list of Muppet lingo

We Are Called to be Irritating

It looks like Erik Raymond and I were thinking similar things last week. His is from a different side of the equation.

Name the Members of the 500 Home Run Club

I got 70% of them. How’d you do?

Oh wow. This dad built his kids an epic luge:

God’s Mysterious Ways

I’ve decided to do a little more to bridge the gap between my writing ministry and my ministry here at First Baptist Jasper. To this end I’ll occasionally post sermons that I’ve preached in the past that I believe may be helpful to others.

Have you ever heard the phrase, “God works in mysterious ways”? That phrase likely comes from a hymn by William Cowper:

1. God moves in a mysterious way
His wonders to perform;
He plants His footsteps in the sea
And rides upon the storm.

2. Deep in unfathomable mines
Of never failing skill
He treasures up His bright designs
And works His sov’reign will.

3. Ye fearful saints, fresh courage take;
The clouds ye so much dread
Are big with mercy and shall break
In blessings on your head.

4. Judge not the Lord by feeble sense,
But trust Him for His grace;
Behind a frowning providence
He hides a smiling face.

5. His purposes will ripen fast,
Unfolding every hour;
The bud may have a bitter taste,
But sweet will be the flow’r.

6. Blind unbelief is sure to err
And scan His work in vain;
God is His own interpreter,
And He will make it plain.

God does indeed work in mysterious ways. This is evidenced not only by the life of William Cowper but also in the biblical story of Esther. In Esther 2 we see God uses unsuspecting things to accomplish his purposes.

1. He uses the ungodly desires of Xerxes to accomplish His purposes.

2. He uses the muddy obedience of Esther and Mordecai to accomplish His purposes.

So what do we do with this? What do we do with God using unsuspecting means to accomplish His purposes? What does this mean for our lives today? Here is what I did in preaching through Esther 2: