Today in Blogworld 07.08.16

We’re Not Independent

We might think we are, but we are not independent.

Christians Who Feel Marginalized Should ‘Go Local’

I agree. Although, I really am pulling for Daffy Duck as President.

True Leaders Are Teachable

This is true.

A Letter to My Sons About Pornography

I love this. Hate that pornography is even a thing but this is a great model for fighting it in the lives of our children.

My son has a couple of loose teeth…perhaps this will be our method for extraction:

Weep With Those Who Weep Today

My heart is especially heavy these past two days for what black people are living through and dying for.

My heart is also heavy at what I’ve seen online as my black brothers and sisters cry out in pain and anger at what they see, and white brothers and sisters critique their thoughts and seek to discredit everything they’re saying.

Lots of folks are careful to say “we don’t know all the facts so we can’t be upset yet.” Really? Someone died. We can be upset. Pastor H.B. Charles Jr. said on twitter, “The Bible exhorts us to weep with those who weep (Rom. 12:15). It doesn’t tell us to judge whether they should be weeping.”

And he’s right.

Today, black brothers and sisters woke up to another video of a black man dying at the hands of police. Before you attempt to justify what happened, why don’t you empathize with black people who feel terror, anger, sorrow, and pain? Before you respond to their “blacklivesmatter” with your witty retort of “alllivesmatter” why don’t you consider what they mean? Do they mean black lives matter exclusively? Or, could it be, that they feel so undervalued that they feel they have to fight for an equality of worth?

Fellow white person reading this, don’t attempt to give an answer to their anguish. Don’t try to fix it. You don’t reason with the grieving, you offer comfort. Their souls are in anguish. Be their brother or sister in Christ and weep with them. Enter into their pain. Do you have no desire to do so or respect for their pain? Does the thought of doing that cause you to pause and think about a loss of respect or influence with others? Repent.

Weep with those who weep, today.

Today in Blogworld 07.07.16

Parenting a Difficult Child

This is sound advice.

The Bold Legacy of John Calvin’s Co-Pastor

I love reading little slices of history like this one.

A Biblical Theology of Oil

I haven’t jumped on board the essential oils train, but I appreciate this piece on a resurgent practice.

10 Temptations Facing an Elder’s Wife

Elder is synonymous with pastor—so these are very real temptations for precious ladies like my dear wife.

21 Thoughts on Preaching

It’s unreal how similar Jared Wilson’s thoughts on preaching are to my own—including the use of a manuscript. I tried to divert, but I’ve just found it suits me best.

I loved singing this at T4G2016:

You Can’t Sell What Isn’t Yours

Serve Christ; back Him; let His cause be your cause, give not an hairbreadth of truth away, for it is not yours but God’s. –Samuel Rutherford

You’ve got a friend going on a lengthy trip. She has some valuable antiques that she doesn’t feel comfortable leaving in her house. You volunteer to keep some of her valuables in a spare room. A couple months into this thing your budget gets a bit tight and you hear the news that the guys from American Pickers are coming to your area. You’ve got a few neat items that might interest them, so you give the boys a call in the hopes they’ll find the treasures in your trash.

When the guys arrive they don’t find much of interest in all of your junk but they notice that room you’ve got closed off—the one housing all of your friends valuables. They go bananas over the items. They offer you top dollar everyone of them. You’ll be able to meet budget and even have a good chunk left over for a fun shopping trip.

So what do you do?

You sell all of your friends stuff and celebrate, right? Of course not! Any decent person knows that this isn’t yours to sell. You politely tell the celebrities that even though you’d love the cash, you’d love to be on their show, and you’d love to help them out, that this isn’t yours to sell. They’d need to take up business with your friend, you are only the possessor of her resources for the time being.

This same thing is true of the truth of the gospel. Even the uncomfortable truths about holiness and forsaking the darling sins of our culture. We are not the owners of the Bible’s truth. It belongs to Jesus Christ; Truth incarnate. We cannot sell what is not ours. We cannot pretend like the Scriptures are ours to bend and twist to suit our pleasures. This goes for not bending truth for culture and it also means we cannot bend the truth to suit ourselves. We must surrender and submit to the Word even when it rebukes us.

There will be times when we feel backed into a corner. It will seem like the most loving thing we can do is bend the truth…just a little, of course. We will rationalize that we are doing this for the greater good. It’s as if we are going through our friends antique collection and pricing them—just in case, you know. Just in case we need to sell something. So we’ll put truth into tiers. Some of these—if really pressed—we’ll be able to sell. Others of course, we’d never sell. But when you sell that first bit of antique furniture you’ve sealed the fate of the last piece.

This isn’t a slippery slope as much as it is just a truth that when you deny the foundational principle it isn’t long before the whole building collapses. In this case the foundational principle is that the truth isn’t yours to sell and so you’ve got no right to start putting price tags on it in the first place. Deny that and it really doesn’t matter which truths you deem able to be compromised on—eventually they’ll all be sold.

Don’t hear me wrongly. I still find Albert Mohler’s Call for Theological Triage immensely helpful. And I’m not so arrogant as to think I have the truth market cornered. I could be wrong, on some things. But being wrong about something and holding to a humble orthodoxy is not the same thing as pretending that truth has a wax nose and I can bend it however I please. The former is just acknowledging my finitude. The latter is a denial of a God who has clearly revealed himself.

The truth isn’t yours to sell. So, put away the garage sale stickers and instead humbly come to grips with the fact that the God of the Universe probably knows how to love people better than I do. And he does this not by compromising truth but by bringing us into union with Truth; namely, Jesus the Christ.

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